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Well I realise its been a long time since my last post and for that I apologise. The last 8 months have been a real rollercoaster. Ive had some incredible highs and some real lows. I realised I wasn’t up to blogging during this time and took a break from writing things down for myContinue reading “Im officially Divorced”

One of the greatest things about being with hot neighbour is that we do stuff. Don’t get me wrong we have lots of time vegging on the sofa watching crap telly, but we also get out there and do things, try new things and generally get on with life. Hot neighbour has been working theContinue reading “at 51 I went to my first festival…”

It’s been a trying couple of weeks. As you know since I filed for divorce my ex has taken to calling me from a withheld number and ranting at me. This culminated with him leaving quite a threatening voicemail which left me feeling very unsafe. After the events of last week I still procrastinated aboutContinue reading “Changing my number”

And I realise I haven’t posted in far too long. Ive been going through a tough time with various things getting on top of me and so hadn’t really felt the inspiration to post. I felt now was the right time to start again so here goes nothing. So whats changed? I’ve been having someContinue reading “Twas the night before Christmas…”

It has taken me a while to write this blog post for a couple of reasons… 1 – its been a shit few weeks with the ex 2- Im actually enjoying my time with hot neighbour 3 – this post is about admitting something I have found hard to admit to myself… So here weContinue reading “Its all about control”

The last few weeks has been a whirlwind with hot neighbour and on some levels everything has been incredible. We have had so much fun, explored our local area together on our bikes, spent time getting to know each other (and still like what we are finding out) and having lots of deep and meaningfulContinue reading “Its complicated…”

This is a post that I really didnt think Id be posting so soon. It’s been 6 months since my life fell apart and in that time Ive seen some dramatic changes. Ive moved towns, Ive bought a new flat, Ive started to find out what makes me tick and Ive been able to takeContinue reading “Im dating again…”

I’ve been having some counselling over the last few months and we have been working through some stuff. We’ve been discussing what it means to be single, having an individual identity and more specifically my sexual identity. After so long in one relationship I find it really hard to think of myself as being sexualContinue reading “Let’s talk about sex, baby”

Every time I think I’m moving on something happens that brings me back down to earth with a bang!! I’ve been loving living in my new home, making some fantastic new mates and even starting to think about dating. My job has been going well and I’ve been able to settle into the rhythm ofContinue reading “Moving on…”