Welcome to the madhouse….
Im officially Divorced
Well I realise its been a long time since my last post and for that I apologise. The last 8 months have been a real rollercoaster. Ive had some incredible highs and some real lows. I realised I wasn’t up to blogging during this time and took a break from writing things down for my…
at 51 I went to my first festival…
One of the greatest things about being with hot neighbour is that we do stuff. Don’t get me wrong we have lots of time vegging on the sofa watching crap telly, but we also get out there and do things, try new things and generally get on with life. Hot neighbour has been working the…
Changing my number
It’s been a trying couple of weeks. As you know since I filed for divorce my ex has taken to calling me from a withheld number and ranting at me. This culminated with him leaving quite a threatening voicemail which left me feeling very unsafe. After the events of last week I still procrastinated about…
Ive filed for Divorce
I cant believe that its been almost 6 months to the day since I last posted and I have absolutely no understanding why I had a complete block on posting to the blog. Maybe I hoped if I didnt blog things were going ok Maybe I hoped if I didnt write it down it didnt…
Twas the night before Christmas…
And I realise I haven’t posted in far too long. Ive been going through a tough time with various things getting on top of me and so hadn’t really felt the inspiration to post. I felt now was the right time to start again so here goes nothing. So whats changed? I’ve been having some…
Its all about control
It has taken me a while to write this blog post for a couple of reasons… 1 – its been a shit few weeks with the ex 2- Im actually enjoying my time with hot neighbour 3 – this post is about admitting something I have found hard to admit to myself… So here we…
Its complicated…
The last few weeks has been a whirlwind with hot neighbour and on some levels everything has been incredible. We have had so much fun, explored our local area together on our bikes, spent time getting to know each other (and still like what we are finding out) and having lots of deep and meaningful…
Im dating again…
This is a post that I really didnt think Id be posting so soon. It’s been 6 months since my life fell apart and in that time Ive seen some dramatic changes. Ive moved towns, Ive bought a new flat, Ive started to find out what makes me tick and Ive been able to take…
Let’s talk about sex, baby
I’ve been having some counselling over the last few months and we have been working through some stuff. We’ve been discussing what it means to be single, having an individual identity and more specifically my sexual identity. After so long in one relationship I find it really hard to think of myself as being sexual…
Moving on…
Every time I think I’m moving on something happens that brings me back down to earth with a bang!! I’ve been loving living in my new home, making some fantastic new mates and even starting to think about dating. My job has been going well and I’ve been able to settle into the rhythm of…
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The Unapologetic life of a Gay Divorcee 